How to Have the Best Sex: Advice for Zambian Men Part 2

Nomenclature
In this article we will use metaphors; a man’s
private part will be called “Nthonga ”. Sex
between the two partners will be called: “making
love”. When the two make love and reach the
point of such pleasure that the man feels like
he will die, that will be called “crossing the
bridge of no return”. When the man successfully
crosses the bridge with his partner, he will then
have “delivered the goods through his Nthonga ”.
The discussions are divided into three parts:
boys and young men between 14 and 17 years
old, men between the age of 18 to 40 years old,
and men between the age of 40 to 90 years
plus. Lastly the article will describe the most
ideal way to make love with a woman.

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